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  • Managing the trauma of present times

    Posted by Nabila on August 12, 2025 at 6:14 am

    A question has recently come into my consciousness regarding the amplification of overt trauma that is occurring due to current global events ( eg Gaza etc ) and what if any role the ascending collective might have in helping clear/ manage this crisis.

    Perhaps because the Mother aspect in me is and always has been deeply connected to childhood and the knock on effects even the slightest dysfunction that occurs even pre birth , to a child /future adult , I am feeling triggered? Or at best curious in how this explosion of trauma for children will pan out for future generations.

    And what is the purpose other than to bring to the surface the corruption and debauchery that’s currently playing out ( especially via the child ( Gaza, Epstein etc) ?

    I guess my bi cultural heritage is perhaps more affected ? On a cellular level maybe which at times makes it a little harder to stay neutral , but are any of us here in this group due to get involved in clearing this apparent holocaustic trauma now or in the future?

    And if so what would that look like?

    Also, I understand that there maybe some soul contract thing involved in these or any war/ injustice situations, but the barbarism is off the scales it seems, or is that also a mirage created to keep us distracted.

    What is it in that particular part of the world that is at the root of this issue? It seems there’s something perhaps in the land, under the ground or perhaps a ley line/ portal that is getting our attention for some greater reason.

    As I’ve said, I have managed until recently, literally , today to stay above the why and wherefore , but today woke with a sudden urge to dig deeper.

    Anyone? @lauren?

    Thanks 🙏

    Lauren replied 6 months, 3 weeks ago 10 Members · 19 Replies
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  • Lauren

    Administrator
    August 12, 2025 at 9:37 am

    What’s unfolding now is both a revelation and a reckoning…bringing deep shadows to light for transmutation. While the suffering is real, so is the distortion designed to keep humanity in fear. The ascending collective’s role is not to absorb or “fix” the trauma, but to hold unwavering presence, coherence and to maintain the higher vision, seeding the Way-Truth-Life for future generations.

    Your sensitivity is part of your gift…when held in neutrality, it becomes a stabilizing (anchoring) force that supports organic healing far beyond what the eyes can see. But to arrive here your masculine inner child must be fully healed lest your own wounding be activated as the collective masculine inner child wounding is amplified by Leo season. This (holy child healing) is an essential requirement to embody the frequency of the Christ as this is the Divine Father frequency of protection (detachment) that shields us with the “armor of GOD”.

    The objectivity essential to true emotional detachment is also the gift of the Mother Monad. Through Soul ascension, you merge with the Cosmic Egg, and in the embrace of the Mother, the inner child wound is soothed and suffering dissolves. In other words, the Mother provides the necessary space (distance) from suffering and The Father defends it (the boundary). Know too that the Cosmic Egg is your safe zone and so this is where you want to hold your energy and consistently maintain your focus⇾ within the Cosmic Mother zone.

    And yes, that region holds major planetary stargates, ancient ley lines, and crystalline grid/nodal points linked to a long history of galactic wars fought over Earth’s power. These are energetic access points to that very power and control over them has long been a driver of conflict there…both in physical and non-physical realms.

    Hope that helps ease the strain. 💗

    • Anne

      Member
      August 14, 2025 at 7:02 am

      This message brings clarification to what I go thru and brings expension within. . In the community of homeless people I am meeting/hearing/feeling stories of all kind, meeting all kind of consciousness too in a concentrated place/space…. I am learning much much much from this phase and going thru my own expension of consciousness, and Holy Child healing process(es) . The other day, I listened to an unknown root trauma lived by one of the women in the flat where I live, after she delivered her symptoms’ memories, I went back to my room and FELT in a powerful way a dark energy that I was purging from my field. First time I felt it in a STRONG and destabilizing moment in my field that it spinned out, had to hang on…. now I recognize it….The STRENGTH of it surprised me for a minute 🙏💫🌹

      Thanks for your message that echos on multiple levels and to you @nabilarc 😘😘

    • Nabila

      Member
      August 17, 2025 at 4:09 am

      Thank you @lauren for your response and for taking the time to explain this query.

      Apologies for the delayed reply. Got caught in the turbulence of the lions gate etc energy of late and couldn’t find the right time/bandwidth to reply.

      Agreed, I did know on an inner level it was about taking that eagles eerie position and holding space for all of. ‘this’ to play out as I think I’ve been doing for decades now. I think sometimes my apparent ‘ apathy’ or detachment I’ve seemed to have acquired over the many years, has actually been this so called anchoring. I raised a few days ago that the childhood wound of being called ‘ lazy’ and not ‘ enthusiastic’ ( which has hounded me for years) has probably been this innate skill to stay out of polarity as alongside the judgements that hurt around mt so called personality defects , I was always called SO peaceful as a child and adult. Funny how our minds hold into the negative emotions.

      I digress!!

      Anyhoo. Now this sentence of yours @lauren piqued my interest.

      “But to arrive here your masculine inner child must be fully healed.”

      What does that actually play out as?

      I’m thinking is it to move deeper into action ( my apparent passivity/ peace/.receiver /F nature feels like it needs to change) , and aggressively pursue my desires/self actualisation?

      A life time of experiencing persistently blocked /failed ambitions /actions which I think was part of my mission/karmic process, ( think you’ve mentioned that for some 3D models of success/living were just not enabled) .

      To this end I do feel on the back foot regarding moving /actualising ideas or even just getting thru daily tasks.

      This has become amplified over the last few years.

      Is the wounded Masculine expressed in the apparent struggle to MAN-i-fest? To find it hard to commit, but bones into conceits, stay consistent?

      Or is it about not feeling supported ( by the false M model ) etc?

      If you have the time to expand on this healing of the wounded masculine and what we are focusing on in this concept, that would be most appreciated.


      💝🙏

  • Marcy

    Member
    August 12, 2025 at 5:40 pm

    Also, Texas flooding, portion of victims were all little girls. Texas leaders have mentioned the shelved bill this year that would have provided better emergency response in the event of flooding…that they didn’t bother with. I think of the Pied Piper story and lost children, it reveals corruption of the adults, very masculine wounds, societal masculine wounds. It makes horrifying, terrible, awful sense.

    I care about kids, I sacrificed years for them, as part of service, to those very circumstances. I am resolving a lot this week. I stop and cry, I mourn. I pray for Gaza. I love Israel. I feel my prayers have power I never knew they had before. I also ask, “what more can I do?” Due to all of this week, being beyond tremendous, what it has brought, what it has dissolved, I know to grieve my own shit right now and how, to put it mildly, lol. I won’t step out of my own circle right now. For God’s sake and the sake of the whole world and for my heart’s sake. So I can hold space for them, all of them. Far, far more helpful than identifying. I feel that now.

    Gaza & Israel, I see capital victim identity looking itself in the mirror. Like really hurt siblings, neither wants to quit. They are so wronged. They are so right. Who will let go? How? Great loss. Like very masculine Texas. What they love the most only will break the heart open.

    I was just thinking of the play, Romeo and Juliet today, the families, their losses, the lesson. I thought it was corny, wondered why it came to mind today. You shed light on it! This was after I cried and prayed this morning…. for Gaza. Journey from victim/vigilante to forgiveness/faith is a shocking burning hell of a walk… I am not unfamiliar with it. 😉

    I pray your heart is doing okay today!🌹

    • Nabila

      Member
      August 17, 2025 at 6:13 am

      💞<div>So much tension in our world/ existence over wins. I guess it’s just got to play out. </div><div>Breaking hearts( open) </div>

  • Amy

    Member
    August 13, 2025 at 3:30 pm

    I live in DFW, Texas and would like to add for others to be aware of in regard to the devastating floods and loss of life in July 2025 in Hunt and Kerrville, TX and surrounding “Hill Country” where this occurred, was the location of the center of the X from the eclipses of 2023 and 2024.

    • Patti

      Member
      August 13, 2025 at 5:29 pm

      Hi Amy. That flood was indeed very intense. 2 of my friends and I attended the Body, Mind, Spirit Expo in Austin the weekend after the flood. We were guided to finalize the release of the remaining souls (there were 97 of them) that remained tethered to the Earth plane. One of the souls was “dark” and that soul was removed to another plane of existence. The images of the debris and massive changes in the course of the Guadalupe River are powerful. We continue to pray for the healing and recovery of those who are dealing with the aftermath of the rains and floods.

      • Amy

        Member
        August 13, 2025 at 8:16 pm

        Hi @Patti , thanks for sharing the experiences and for the planetary service helping those souls. I know people around the globe were impacted by these children, families and all the ripple effects. 💚🕊️

    • Lauren

      Administrator
      August 14, 2025 at 11:02 am

      That’s a really great insight! Thanks

  • Kristin Ace

    Member
    August 19, 2025 at 3:57 pm

    I am late to add to this conversation but I did want to say thank you for bringing it forward. I’ve had many of these same feelings and wondered if I just am not healed or healed enough or I don’t even know what. But I still have trouble witnessing the happenings in the world and staying neutral. I appreciate the thread around this. @lauren when does that healing fully transpire? I feel like I’ve done all that I know. Although, I am yet to take the Diamond class and won’t have time until next week to start. Maybe that will help?

    • Lauren

      Administrator
      August 19, 2025 at 9:32 pm

      But I still have trouble witnessing the happenings in the world and staying neutral

      Healing is an ongoing deepening. Each trigger simply reveals another layer within you that’s ready to be alchemized. All that’s asked is your presence with the pain (light), so it can dissolve (love).

      Note that staying neutral doesn’t mean you won’t feel, it means your heart can hold what arises without losing center.

      Ultimately, witnessing the pain in the world with compassionate detachment requires core wound healing by which the pain body can no longer be activated.

      My advice, therefore, is to keep pulling your focus inward…back to your own Heart. The more you anchor there, the less the outside world can pull you off balance. A reminder from above:

      Know too that the Cosmic Egg is your safe zone and so this is where you want to hold your energy and consistently maintain your focus⇾ within the Cosmic Mother zone.

      p.s. And yes, the Diamond Lightbody Matrix course will help you to build & reinforce your Diamond Grid which, by its very nature, is an impenetrable structure…a “Source field” of protection.

      • Ana

        Member
        August 20, 2025 at 8:55 am

        Note that staying neutral doesn’t mean you won’t feel, it means your heart can hold what arises without losing center.

        This is KEY here … This is alchemy . Thank YOU for words beloved siSTAR Lauren

        • Lauren

          Administrator
          August 20, 2025 at 10:50 am

          Exactly Ana…and you’re very welcome. 💗

        • Kristin Ace

          Member
          August 20, 2025 at 3:02 pm

          @ana-paula-toothman I love this! Yes, I sometimes forget my Alchemy powers!!

          • Ana

            Member
            August 21, 2025 at 12:42 pm

            😇

      • Kristin Ace

        Member
        August 20, 2025 at 3:04 pm

        Thank you Lauren! this helps tremendously…🙏

  • Lauren

    Administrator
    August 21, 2025 at 1:11 pm

    Years ago as I was tasked with trying to understand unconditional love vs harm/suffering. At the time my interactions were with an ascended master…

    As we all now understand the differences of spiraling awareness… back then it felt more rudimentary. An impossibility to not respond to harm, negatively! I was first shown the step of judgement… right and wrong behavior…victim vs victimizer..then the profundity of ALLOWING… to allow each and every soul the divinity of their own path. We are all here as individual souls on a journey. It stuck me profoundly that allowing ALL unique expression was unconditional love.

    I was also shown… if it was a direct impact to me.. in my personal field…that held a different measure of response.

    While it is human to abhor suffering there is deep wisdom in allowing our differing paths, unless of course we are called specifically to interact with the release of those experiences.. which Ironically is a paradox ❤️‍🔥🔥❤️‍🔥

    • Kathleen

      Member
      August 21, 2025 at 1:49 pm

      Dear Teri, WO•MAN❤️‍🔥!!! Before I even read your words, I felt the POWER of YOU in your Soul-Self expression – FULL voice!!! Then, I noticed that you posted at 1:11 which presented as (your) “NEW mission statement” ✨🙌🏻✨ The WAY…YOU stand in the world…as The Way/Truth/Life!!!💝

      P.s. this just came to add: THE WAY…YOU go about YOU(r) business!!!

      • Lauren

        Administrator
        August 21, 2025 at 5:09 pm

        Wow @kathleen 🔥 there have been massive shifts for certain!

        Thank you so much for your reflection💧💦💧 both internal and external⚡️

        I didn’t catch the 1:11 🧡💯🧡

        Talk about a ‘re- brand’ 💡✨💡😂

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