Reply To: Family Unties

[Darla]

I’m just coming back in to catch up after a tough December for me and seeing this post. Marcy it doesn’t sound crazy AT ALL I have experienced & feel so much of all you have described. So very much so I’m so grateful you shared this story and experience.

I felt more sad and a need to disconnect in December with most people outside my home which is just me and my 3 kids who thankfully are soul family. There were a few exceptions like my father And like you there have been family tests hitting hard and I wondered about severing the relationship. And that’s not easy in a big family that talks daily as in ours and a strain on the others who aren’t involved.

I stepped back with such a new sense of strength and peace and just like you had so much more time, focus & success on ME for once. Can’t remember the last time where I could sort of come first a little bit! Lol

For me that big positive shift came a few days after 2025 began

I’m not sure if this helps in any way but I also struggled with “allowing” them to treat me the way they did But I was reminded they are just very young souls who need to live probably 40,000 more lifetimes before their heart can open So that maybe it really is my job to allow it to an extent and do so coming from a place of showing Grace Reminding myself that they sort of don’t know any different/better And it’s up to me to stay as “unmoved” by all the drama and just continue to be a light and pave the way Be & Do me and let them be where they’re at

Since doing that a few days ago, I’m letting go of the prior need for an apology and just not allowing them or it to take energy away from me and my new mission that’s finally become clear to me That a story is like to share and get feedback on but wondering where in the site to share it?! 🤔

And that was a long note! And I too am ok with that lol I just hope maybe it helps 🩷